Moving out of my house and to Northern Ohio this past December was beyond overwhelming. I never would have gotten out of my house in time without the help of my amazing brother. I'd still be there today laying on the kitchen floor in tears. Yes, I know I'm not supposed to be moving north for the winter, but that is where I had a place to stay, so northward I was bound. It is also where I grew up so I was essentially coming home. My amazingly generous friends took me in and let me stay with them on their farm. They didn't have much space for themselves, so adding me and my 2 cats to the mix was beyond what most people would have put up with. (I had to have my 3rd cat put down just before I moved due to an illness and the stress of the move being too much for him).
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| RIP Yoda |
At my friend's cabin I had my little corner to sleep and lived out of a bag and my car and was content. It was good practice for my future simplistic life in the tearbaby and a useful lesson in flexibility! We eventually got into a routine and aside from frozen pipes and the most wicked winter I can remember, we managed pretty well - as long as I could Bogart their gas fireplace heater round the clock!
But due to many setbacks
this past winter - specifically the WEATHER! - and a great
loss in my life this spring (the sudden passing of my brother), my travel plans
have been put on hold for now. Once life for me and my family adjusts to a "new
normal" I will be hitting the road. It seems that 2014 hasn't been a good
year for many people I know. I hope the second half is spectacular for
everyone, to make up for the first half. I'm counting on it!
I also don't have regular access to internet so have to grab it at the library when I can - thus the lack of posts. However, I have several that I plan to get up soon with some new developments with the tearbaby.
So this summer I have been working on developing my online business to hopefully fund my traveling and helping my family as we transition to life without my brother. This summer my dear friend invited me to spend a day with her and her family at their cottage on Kelley's Island in Lake Erie. I used to go there as a kid with our neighbors, but it has been more than 30 years since I visited. What a MAGICAL day it was for me. Any time I can be on the water is magical, but this day was extraordinary in what it did for me. I really needed it too. We had such a fantastic day. I am so grateful for such dear friends.
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| Ferry ride to Kelley's Island, Lake Erie. Any time on a boat on the water is pure heaven to me! |
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| Hanging out at my friend's "Cottage by the Lake" on Kelley's Island. Boy did I need this day! |
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| All great days must come to an end. Taking a moonlit ferry ride back to the mainland. Cedar Point Amusement Park is lit up in the background. (picture is grainy - sorry) |
I have also packed and repacked and repacked the tearbaby and car so many times trying to cut down my pile to what I think I will need, and trying to figure out how everything will fit. It isn't easy trying to figure out what you might need while living on the road - especially if you are very limited on space and funds. If you already have it then why re-buy it later if it might be helpful? (Have to let go of that mindset.) It reminds me of my backpacking days - talk about living
minimally! My first backpack packing experience was rather pathetic - I'm
really quite embarrassed to admit to the giant pile of stuff I thought I
couldn't live without that I tried to fit into that poor backpack. Thank the
powers that be that I had a knowledgeable friend who educated me on proper
backpack packing etiquette and amazingly I still survived, quite happily,
without all the extras. I tried for many years to keep to a minimalist
lifestyle, but can’t believe not only the amount of stuff that you end up with,
but also the speed of accumulation of said stuff when you have a house:
"If you build it, STUFF will come!" Like ants to a picnic or scandal to a politician. I'm sure I'll continue to purge as I adjust to life in the tearbaby.
If you've never watched the movie "The Story of Stuff" you
really need to. It really hits home. I used to do a lesson very
similar when I taught Environmental Education. Here it is:
http://storyofstuff.org/movies/
One thing I've been
enjoying is decorating my little trailer. Zelda the tearbaby is getting
decked out in an ocean theme. You'd think decorating something that's
less than 50 square feet would be easy, well . . . it's not. Limited
space means you have to be creative. But I love the challenge! The ocean theme and a few small personal items that were special gifts from loved ones will make Zelda feel like home to me.
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| My "totally awesome, coolest little nephew ever" & his mom visited and checked out Zelda. He and "puppy" gave Zelda their Seal of Approval! Actually he loved playing in her - just his size. |
Things are moving along!